What if someone gave you a toy, but it made them feel really happy too? Would that be selfish or selfless? This question is tricky! Some people believe true kindness means doing something for someone else without thinking of yourself. It’s like giving your favorite toy to a friend, even if you really love it. But, you might also feel happy when you see your friend smile. Does that make the kindness selfish? Some philosophers say kindness doesn’t always have to be completely selfless. If you feel good after helping someone, it’s okay—because kindness still made the world better. Think about it like sharing cookies with a friend: they enjoy the cookies, and you enjoy seeing them happy! That’s a win-win. So, true kindness doesn’t have to be without a little personal happiness. When we’re kind, we make someone else’s day brighter, and that’s a gift for both people. The more you share your joy with others, the more the kindness spreads, making the world a better place for everyone. So, maybe the best kind of kindness is a little bit of both: giving to others and feeling happy doing it!